The wedding family photos (also known as the ‘formals’, or ‘family portraits’) are a necessary part of your wedding day that are usually quite tedious.
There, I said it – wedding family photos are boring! They’re also the one part of the day which can tend to drag on for newly weds, and in some cases cause unncecessary stress or anxiety.
That’s why we should try and make the wedding family photos as quick and painless as possible, whilst at the same time getting some nice momentos for your family.
Wedding Family Photos | The When
Prepare to get rushed by all your loved ones right after you say “I do!”
Some time after the ceremony is the normal time to take the wedding family photos. Couples normally plan for the portraits to take place immediately after the ceremony, but this isn’t always possible.
I find that right after you get married, all your friends and family will want to come and congratulate you and give you hugs and kisses!
We should allow at least 20 minutes for this to die down, depending of course on the size of your wedding and how talkative your friends are :p
That means that the wedding group portraits will usually start about 20 or so minutes after you get married.
If we’re tight on time (usually during the cooler months, we start losing light earlier, so need to get the group photos out the way quickly), some couples decide to carry on walking through the aisle when the celebrant announces them as a married couple, and carry on walking to put some distance between them and the guests. They can walk to a back room, or just somewhere hidden from view.
Then a helper will need to round up the family that are involved in the group portraits.
Wedding Family Photos | The How
As I won’t be familiar with all the faces involved in your group photos, it’s important to organize a helper who can round everyone up and call out names if possible.
The helper is usually one of the bridal party, or even a close friend who is not involved in the group portraits. You’ll have to nominate this helper when you fill out my wedding questionnaire.
Whilst we don’t want them to be yelling out orders, it’s probably best if the helper does have a loud voice! Herding cats can be hard…
Wedding Family Photos | The How Long
As long as everyone who is involved in the group photos is nearby and ready, the group portraits needn’t take a long time.
Once the group is in a line and everyone takes their sunglasses off and downs their drinks, the actual photos take a few seconds. The bigger the group, the more I’ll need to take (to ensure no one is blinking), but it’s still a matter of seconds.
Wedding Family Photos | The Who
Whilst you’ll want to plan for a few of the standard portrait combinations, don’t go too overboard with the group shots.
Aside from the time factor, your guests might get a bit impatient if their group photo is no. 16523 on the list!
I’d strongly advise you not to hand your wedding photographer a list of wedding photography family group combinations (such as this terrible one!) which you’ve found on the popular wedding websites.
Here’s a list of the basic combinations that I think every bride and groom should at least consider:
Bride with mum and dad
Bride with family
Groom with mum and dad
Groom with family
Bride and Groom with mums and dads
Bride and Groom with both families
If there’s room and your guests don’t mind, we can also try a group shot of the whole wedding group. This will usually require me balancing on a stool precariously, while everyone laughs at me…
Wedding Family Photos | The Where
I’ll try and take the group portraits as close to the ceremony location as possible, in a shaded area.
If we’re constrained for time/space, or if there are elderly people in the portraits who can’t walk easily, we can take the group portraits right where they’re standing and just do our best.
In the end, it’s not important that the group portraits look like a structured school photo – what is important is that all your family are in the photo and can see the camera (because that means the camera can see them!)
Wedding Family Photos | Final Words
Whilst it might be the awesome panoramic shot from your portrait session or your best man spinning on his head on the dance floor that you share on Facebook, it’s also the wedding family photos that you’ll treasure for years to come.
The photo of you and your mum on your wedding day, moments after putting a ring on your finger is priceless, and I’ll make sure we get it right 🙂